我所相信的 就是真的吗?

i have always think that,
if you want pple to treat u the way u treat them,
then treat them the way u want them to treat you..
(神经病, 太天真了吧!)
but it seems like it's always one sided..
it's either i gave too much or i receive too much..
is it that bad?
so what's the relationship that i expect?
或许吧
a one sided?
an investment?
a mutual commitment?
a responsibility?
a convenience?
an annoyance?
expect expect expect..
grrr..

p/s: _l_ 该来的 就来吧